@randompersonrandom This is a tricky one. I think most of us ( I hope) are of the opinion that an individual needs to do own research and the risk ultimately is theirs to take as you said, and manage. We know everyone is different. I think you are approaching it the right way. I am genuinely terrified by those folk who will just take “anything”.
I have a family member who is desperate to try GLP1’s. So desperate he too would take anything. But I won’t help him get it or talk to him or tell him how because, first he doesn’t listen, and second I don’t want to be blamed for the inevitable ill health that will result.
He won’t even take licenced prescribed meds ( for pain and other long term conditions from specialists ) because of the side effects. I have helped him access healthcare for diagnosis of serious medical conditions. He only wants to know what’s wrong. Never take medication daily. He believes that doctors withhold “good” antibiotics. He will try any “ folklore” cures instead or anything with “but this lassie said on Facebook” . Not one has ever worked. Why? Snake oil. Because there are no quick fixes.
He has taken a tanning injection of unknown origin. He has untreated anxiety and highly disordered relationship with food. He is desperate. Very similar mindset to an addict. Your lady seems more reasonable!
So I can relate
I really like david_ifbbpro on you tube. He explain the science, how it works, the dosing, where to pin, side effects, titration up dose. All for Reta. He also has a Reta guide, so there’s educational aspect there too.
The comments are full of people asking same three questions. Obviously one is where do you get it. Where can I buy it.
I would start her chat with gentle curiosity, making it about her, ask how it’s going, the journey, concerns / side effects & get her to admit to you the stuff she doesn’t know and then send her the link to the youtube. Right then and there while you are chatting. In healthcare circles they call this a “ brief intervention”.
What more can a friend do other than say I’m concerned, can we talk about this? You have to say something because you obviously care about this person and a true friend will tell you what you DONT want to hear but often need to. It will ease your conscience if she does become unwell because of it. We can only try.
You can lead a horse to water..
Good luck
