It's definitely interesting to hear all the different opinions and approaches regarding who is informed of our little hobby here..
Even between my wife and I, we have vastly different approaches. She's been interested in Sema/Tirz for quite some time, unhappy with her weight, but I was giving it some years to see how it all shook out and some longer studies had come through.
That all said, she's now my RS, along with myself. Both started with Telehealth Tirz, and both cross titrated / stacked Reta as I learned and educated myself more, and as more doors opened in doing so.
I'm happy to discuss, at various levels (depending on their current knowledge/experience), with anyone in my "circle" or immediately adjacent to it.
My wife, refuses to tell anyone including her best friend, close siblings, parents etc.
I don't pressure her in any way, it's her journey and she can travel it however she wants, but I'm definitely doing all the work