Reta overactive libido

[LabRatBarbie]

Honestly, is it such a bad thing, increased sex drive = more sex, more sex = happy life, weight loss, only thing sexually I have noticed since starting Reta is crazy sexual dreams, Alien sex, robot sex, all kinds of strange stuff, but I suppose it puts a smile on my face when I wake up given I'm single dad and not having to worry what I have said in my sleep

Lmao I’ve had a few, but mine are more nightmare-ish. I’m on a plane that’s lost both engines over the ocean kinda shit and trying to get it in before I die lol or wake up.

 

[Rolltide61]

I’m really having a difficult time concentrating on anything else.

Tell me more.......in detail.

 

[randompersonrandom]

I've had something very similar with tirz. I sort of think mine is actually emotional and not physical. I feel young and light and beautiful and compelling, and I'm getting a lot more attention than I used to and have a lot more hope and joy and confidence and self-assuredness; so suddenly the idea of me in sexual or romantic situations feels not just plausible but obvious in a way it didn't when I was fat. And I have ALWAYS been very much a fan of me in sexual or romantic situations, so now it's just turned up to ten.

I'm not actually doing anything about all that for now; I don't actually want to involve myself with a dude while all of this feels so new. Because as excited as I am, if I don't wait for it to settle, I'll just wind up back in another disappointing marriage when all I really want long-term is something(s) part-time and not serious. But I'm delighted nevertheless. Yes I cannot concentrate and I am mildly annoying my (beloved, long-term friends) with my fascination with men, but if the point of being alive is to feel big things, MISSION ACCOMPLISHED.

 

[woundcarping]

I haven't heard this, I've heard/read about the opposite accredited to anhedonia/dopamine changes.

Experience wise, I still interested, but I've found myself less willing to put up with bullshit along the path to it. I've had a "buddy" for years, but she's a taxing person to converse with and it looks like I've finally had enough, at least for now.

I made a joke off something from 3 days before, she didn't think it was funny... it's not worth the hassle. I'm more patient now with TRT, but intolerant of drama... irony is TRT isn't bad for the libido.

...I sort of think mine is actually emotional...

That was my thinking for the OP, feeling yourself in your new body with new attention moreso than Reta directly affecting libido.

 

[randompersonrandom]

Put me in coach....

I think my favorite thing about you is that you recognize that "I can help lol" would be tired and obnoxious and not funny, but "Put me in coach" is hilarious.

Let's normalize dudes being cheerfully inappropriate in ways that actually make us laugh.

 

[ochoseis]

So I’m curious if anybody else has experienced increased “urges” while taking Reta. I’ve read post that suggest it normally decreases your sexual desires. It is doing the exact opposite, I’m really having a difficult time concentrating on anything else. It’s a bit much and I need to get it under control.

Not on reta, but I have the same issue on tirzepatide.

I've always had hormonal problems though and an increased libido thanks to PCOS but it had mostly calmed down to "normal."

It's very difficult for me to tell what is due to tirzepatide, the weight loss (I went nuts for awhile when I lost 70lbs and ended a whole 7 year relationship the last time), heading toward mid-30s, being off birth control (except I never got the libido killer side effect from it like a lot of women do), but it is frustrating and I feel you 100%.

It's even worse because my boyfriend is 10 years older than me, struggling with low T, high blood pressure, and being overweight and would rather listen to his friend who is a supplement bro vs. actually treating ANYTHING so our sex life is stupid so I'm trying to come to terms with this relationship heading towards the end too, which is a whole vent you did not ask for!

edit cause I mixed people up ignore me lol

 

[Beardboost]

My question is do the aliens and robots have hair? For me gotta be thick dark hair with a high ponytail....

Its my fault, I recently watched Subservience with Megan Fox, now every dream is Robotic women that come from outer space offering all services Its so strange because I never remember my dreams, but these.... I remember in such detail!!!

 

[Airborne Daddy]

I think my favorite thing about you is that you recognize that "I can help lol" would be tired and obnoxious and not funny, but "Put me in coach" is hilarious.

Let's normalize dudes being cheerfully inappropriate in ways that actually make us laugh.

Its my job to stay masculine...Wife said have at it, ill sign a waiver, youre not that good anyway...

 

[Airborne Daddy]

Not on reta, but I have the same issue on tirzepatide.

I've always had hormonal problems though and an increased libido thanks to PCOS but it had mostly calmed down to "normal."

It's very difficult for me to tell what is due to tirzepatide, the weight loss (I went nuts for awhile when I lost 70lbs and ended a whole 7 year relationship the last time), heading toward mid-30s, being off birth control (except I never got the libido killer side effect from it like a lot of women do), but it is frustrating and I feel you 100%.

It's even worse because my boyfriend is 10 years older than me, struggling with low T, high blood pressure, and being overweight and would rather listen to his friend who is a supplement bro vs. actually treating ANYTHING so our sex life is stupid so I'm trying to come to terms with this relationship heading towards the end too, which is a whole vent you did not ask for!

edit cause I mixed people up ignore me lol

Thats raw and powerful and beautiful... my wife said you better make it hurt this time so i hit her with a brick and now i have a protection from abuse order against me. Cant win....

 

[randompersonrandom]

It's even worse because my boyfriend is 10 years older than me, struggling with low T, high blood pressure, and being overweight and would rather listen to his friend who is a supplement bro vs. actually treating ANYTHING so our sex life is stupid so I'm trying to come to terms with this relationship heading towards the end too, which is a whole vent you did not ask for!

I swear to God, my favorite thing is ending relationships with dudes who aren't it and aren't going to become it. That first six months after you cut the rope and don't have that rock around your neck are so exhilarating. "OH MY GOD I DO NOT HAVE TO DEAL WITH THAT SHIT ANYMORE, THAT PROBLEM IS NOT MY PROBLEM!"

 

[randompersonrandom]

Its my job to stay masculine...Wife said have at it, ill sign a waiver, youre not that good anyway...

If y'all lived in Texas, I swear I'd end up having dinner with you and your wife at least once a month. She and I would make each other laugh so LOUD.

 

[ochoseis]

I swear to God, my favorite thing is ending relationships with dudes who aren't it and aren't going to become it. That first six months after you cut the rope and don't have that rock around your neck are so exhilarating. "OH MY GOD I DO NOT HAVE TO DEAL WITH THAT SHIT ANYMORE, THAT PROBLEM IS NOT MY PROBLEM!"

You right

I hate it because he is absolutely the best sex I've ever had and we were so compatible, been together since 2019, then he gained weight, which is FINE, from a visual perspective, is tired all the time, finds out he has high blood pressure, has his T tested and he's low low, but instead of doing literally anything about any of it, he vents to his friend who I very strongly suspect is on reta and T anyway and too proud to admit it, and that friend gives him a list of all these supplements he should try so he spends 2 weeks shitting his guts out thanks to those and declares it unfixable. I'm not spending my 30s having sex every two weeks so

 

[Airborne Daddy]

If y'all lived in Texas, I swear I'd end up having dinner with you and your wife at least once a month. She and I would make each other laugh so LOUD.

You 2 would be besties and yall could go out and i can drink with my dog. My brother lived in El Paso and i would visit him when i lived in Colorado.. Spent a weekend in San Antonio for a back surgery consult at Ft. Sam too.

 

[randompersonrandom]

You right

I hate it because he is absolutely the best sex I've ever had and we were so compatible, been together since 2019, then he gained weight, which is FINE, from a visual perspective, is tired all the time, finds out he has high blood pressure, has his T tested and he's low low, but instead of doing literally anything about any of it, he vents to his friend who I very strongly suspect is on reta and T anyway and too proud to admit it, and that friend gives him a list of all these supplements he should try so he spends 2 weeks shitting his guts out thanks to those and declares it unfixable. I'm not spending my 30s having sex every two weeks so

Girl, if I wrote a book titled "Dudes who were the best thing that ever happened to me for awhile, and then stopped being that, and were never that again," I would have to go to the gym WAY more often than I do to be able to carry it from room to room.

 

[Airborne Daddy]

Tell me more.......in detail.

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I haven't heard this, I've heard/read about the opposite accredited to anhedonia/dopamine changes.

Experience wise, I still interested, but I've found myself less willing to put up with bullshit along the path to it. I've had a "buddy" for years, but she's a taxing person to converse with and it looks like I've finally had enough, at least for now.

I made a joke off something from 3 days before, she didn't think it was funny... it's not worth the hassle. I'm more patient now with TRT, but intolerant of drama... irony is TRT isn't bad for the libido.

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That was my thinking for the OP, feeling yourself in your new body with new attention moreso than Reta directly affecting libido.

Taxing person to converse with lol, love it.

 

[Airborne Daddy]

You right

I hate it because he is absolutely the best sex I've ever had and we were so compatible, been together since 2019, then he gained weight, which is FINE, from a visual perspective, is tired all the time, finds out he has high blood pressure, has his T tested and he's low low, but instead of doing literally anything about any of it, he vents to his friend who I very strongly suspect is on reta and T anyway and too proud to admit it, and that friend gives him a list of all these supplements he should try so he spends 2 weeks shitting his guts out thanks to those and declares it unfixable. I'm not spending my 30s having sex every two weeks so

Give him 2cc of trenbolone, a cialis and some pt141.... dont complain when he chases you around the kitchen table 36hours though.

 

[LabRatBarbie]

That was my thinking for the OP, feeling yourself in your new body with new attention moreso than Reta directly affecting libido.

I think that could be the case for a more insecure or self conscious woman. That is not me.

feeling yourself in your new body

Trust and believe, that is accomplished MANY times throughout the day.

 

[Ryanking11]

Apparently, the problem is more severe in ADD and ADHD patients and it works on the dopamine pathway. Maybe you want to check on impulse controlling dopamine modulators

I have adhd and i definitely noticed a difference in mine

 

[Airborne Daddy]

Its my fault, I recently watched Subservience with Megan Fox, now every dream is Robotic women that come from outer space offering all services Its so strange because I never remember my dreams, but these.... I remember in such detail!!!

Reminds me of an old star trek episode where the Shatmaster was hooking up with amazon space chicks....

 

[Airborne Daddy]

I think that could be the case for a more insecure or self conscious woman. That is not me.

Trust and believe, that is accomplished MANY times throughout the day.

One thing im certain of. This is the most active thread on the forum currently and i expect responses for the next 18months.