
Sometimes a second set of eyes makes both people lax in the fact the other will notice/act on pertinent things. Ultimately self reliance is the best route anyway. Except for the second incomerandompersonrandom said:There are just so many examples of candles causing incredible damage. I try to take them really seriously. I've lived alone for five years, after always being married to some dude or other until I was forty. I love living alone and plan to stay that way, but the knowledge that I can't afford to make big danger-mistakes because there IS no second set of eyes gets me so spooked.